人生有七件事千万不要去做

人生有七件事千万不要去做

几乎每个人的一生，都不会是一帆风顺，总有数不清的不如意伴随在你我身边，所谓愁与恨、悲与苦、烦恼与失望、坎坷与不平，让我们无法逃避；放眼整个社会，战争、饥饿、贫穷、暴力、自然灾害、环境污染，也在时时不断地影响着我们，可以说，在这个娑婆世界，我们的生命虽然何等短暂又无常，却都是被痛苦和烦恼包围的一生……

如果一个人能够平平安安、快快乐乐的度过此生，实在是荣幸之极！其实，要想尽量摆脱痛苦和烦恼，让自己每一天都活得开心自在、了无遗憾，也并不是非常难，只要你相信因果，记住“善有善报，恶有恶报”这句话。同时，有几件事你千万不要做，这些事情对你的一生影响特别大——

1、不孝顺父母。父母生我养我，恩情深厚，佛经上说你报答几亿劫都还不了父母的大恩，不孝父母者天地都难容。况且连父母之孝礼都不尊者，又何能领导他人？何能服众！

2、贪淫好色。贪淫好色之人，心中存邪，缺乏浩然正气，生活事业会很不顺利，所求违愿，不能圆满。而且贪淫之人，身体肯定受损，岂能不得病？

3、爱贪便宜，非常吝啬，很少做善事。心中贪吝，贫穷常不离左右。不做善事，没有福德资粮，坐吃山空。这种人没有博爱救苦之心，没有人缘，也必定缺少他人帮助，又怎能成就事业？纵然一时快活，可终究会财去财空。

4、心存仇恨。对过去跟自己有过结怨的事或是人，总是念念不忘，不能放下，心中缺少善念，又怎能得到事业、生活上的机遇？

5、不尊敬师长，贡高我慢。既然作为你的老师、你的领导，肯定有比你优秀的地方。如果你毫不谦虚，总是认为他们这里讲的不好、做的不好或者领导无方，那你肯定是会毫无作为，因为你心浮气躁，没有王者风范！孔子曰“三人行，必有我师”，不虚心者，又怎能若谷？

6、偷盗。偷盗的概念非常广泛，只要是不属于自己的东西而占为己有，哪怕是拿公司里的一张纸、一支笔都属于盗，虽然我们有时是光明正大的心理，也很坦然的。但是这种行为，是非常消耗自己的福报的，而且你一定会在某个时候发生同样的损失。还有一部分人专门从事偷盗，但即使“发家致富”了，最后终究还是落个悲惨贫穷的恶果。

7、常说假话。人与人之间的和谐、友好相处，贵在相互真诚，忌讳虚情假意。不论是六亲眷属、朋友上司，只要你平时言语诚恳，真心善待，一定会赢得他人的信任。经常编造一些子无虚有的故事，或者养成了“说谎心不慌”、对任何人都能随口说假话的习惯性“条件反射”，有时往往会因一句随意的谎言而付出极其惨重的代价。

如果上述7项与你毫不沾边，恭喜你！你可以坦坦荡荡生活，即使你现在有什么困难，也一定会柳暗花明，拨云见日。合天地之道，神鬼佑之！如果你有几项和上面一样，建议你立即改正，真心忏悔，不管你现在如何，你的未来肯定也会有极大的转变，人生的光明愈强。

There are seven things   DO NOT DO IN YOUR LIFE !! 

Almost everyone's life, will not be easy, there are always countless unhappy with you by OUR side, the so-called unhappy and hate, sadness and suffering, annoyance and disappointment, frustrations and grievances, so we can not escape; look at the whole community, war, hunger, poverty, violence, natural disasters, environmental pollution, but also continue to affect us from time to time, we can say, in this Saha world, what our life though short and inconstant, but are surrounded by a life of pain and worry ... ...
If a person can safely, happily through this life, it is extremely pleasure! In fact, in order to get rid of the pain and trouble as possible so that they are happy to live every day freely, with no regrets, it is not very difficult, as long as you believe in cause and effect, remember "What goes around, comes around" phrase words. At the same time, there are a few things you should never do, these things are particularly affected your life -
1, do not obey their parents. Parents with me to keep me, deep kindness, Buddhism says you do not have to repay hundreds of millions of robbing the kindness of parents, lack of filial piety to parents world is immune tolerance. Moreover, not even the parents of Xiao Li Venerable, how to lead others? How can convince the people!
2, Tan Yin lust. Tan Yin lust of the people, keep the hearts of evil, the lack of uprightness, the cause of life will be very smooth, the breach would like to ask, can not be successful.And Tan Yin person, the body certainly damaged, how can we not sick?
3, love to get petty, very mean, very few do good. Greedy stingy heart, often separated from about poverty. Do not do good things, there is no merit MERITS, rest on its laurels.Such people do not love revered of the heart, not popularity, but also will lack the help of others, how can a successful career? Even momentary joy, wealth to wealth can eventually empty.
4, feel hatred. Over the past grudges with the things they have, or who, always keep in mind, can not put down, the lack of good thoughts in mind, how can be the cause of life's opportunities?
5, no respect for teachers, high tribute I slow. Now, as your teacher, your leadership, there must be a place better than you. If you're not humble, thinking that they are not mentioned here, do good or poor leadership, you will certainly be useless, because you are impatient, there is no style of the King! Confucius said, "three-line, must be my teacher," not open-minded person, how can we stay foolish?
6, stealing. The concept of theft is very broad, as long as they do not own anything but for himself, even if the company is holding a piece of paper, a pen are all stolen, even though we sometimes openly psychological, and very calm. But this behavior is very exhausting their blessings, and you will be the same at some point the loss occurred.Still others specialize in the theft, but even "get rich", and last fall, after all, a tragic consequence of poverty.
7, often telling lies. Harmony between people, friendly to each other, your faith in each other, taboo hypocrites. Whether relatives could dependents, friends, boss, as long as the words you usually sincere, genuine treat, sure to win the trust of others. Children often make up some imaginary and some non-story, or develop a "lying heart does not panic," anyone can casually on the habit of telling lies "conditioned reflex", it is sometimes lie because of an arbitrary pay very heavy price.
If the above 7 and you have do nothing, Congratulations! You can sway Tan life, even if you have any difficulties, they will certainly turn for the better, Sudden Impact. Hop Heaven and Earth, ghost of Mary Help of Christians! If you have several same as above, suggest that you immediately correct, true repentance, no matter how you, your future will surely be of great change, the stronger the light of life.